Are friends really "friends" if they hurt you?.. I was constantly thinking about it over the weekend. I know holding grudges isn't good. nor is hating people. but i dont wish to be used and hurt, then discarded, when im not needed anymore.. a sorry would have been nice too. but i dont even get that..i move on acting like everything is okay,the more I think about it though,,the more it upsets me.I honestly feel like telling a few of them off, but I don't want to hurt them. so, i just wont be speaking or responding to those im upset with atm. if anyone has advice, id love to hear it.